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December 16 微笑是一种修养 (ZT)生活并没有拖欠我们任何东西,所以没有必要总苦着脸。应对生活充满感激,至少,它给了我们生命,给了我们生存的空间。
微笑是对生活的一种态度,跟贫富,地位,处境没有必然的联系。一个富翁可能整天忧心忡忡,而一个穷人可能心情舒畅:一位残疾人可能坦然乐观;一位处境顺利的人可能会愁眉不展,一位身处逆境的人可能会面带微笑…… 一个人的情绪受环境的影响,这是很正常的,但你苦着脸,一副苦大仇深的样子,对处境并不会有任何的改变,相反,如果微笑着去生活,那会增加亲和力,别人更乐于跟你交往,得到的机会也会更多。 只有心里有阳光的人,才能感受到现实的阳光,如果连自己都常苦着脸,那生活如何美好?生活始终是一面镜子,照到的是我们的影像,当我们哭泣时,生活在哭泣,当我们微笑时,生活也在微笑。 微笑发自内心,不卑不亢,既不是对弱者的愚弄,也不是对强者的奉承。奉承时的笑容,是一种假笑,而面具是不会长久的,一旦有机会,他们便会除下面具,露出本来的面目。 微笑没有目的,无论是对上司,还是对门卫,那笑容都是一样,微笑是对他人的尊重,同时是对生活的尊重。微笑是有"回报"的,人际关系就像物理学上所说的力的平衡,你怎样对别人,别人就会怎样对你,你对别人的微笑越多,别人对你的微笑也会越多。 在受到别人的曲解后,可以选择暴怒,也可以选择微笑,通常微笑的力量会更大,因为微笑会震撼对方的心灵,显露出来的豁达气度让对方觉得自己渺小,丑陋。 清者自清,浊者自浊。有时候过多的解释、争执是没有必要的。对于那些无理取闹、蓄意诋毁的人,给他一个微笑,剩下的事就让时间去证明好了。 当年,有人处处说爱因斯坦的理论错了,并且说有一百位科学家联合作证,爱因斯坦知道了这件事,只是淡淡的笑了笑,说,一百位?要这么多人?只要证明我真的错了,一个人出面便行了。 爱因斯坦的理论经历了时间的考验,而那些人却让一个微笑打败了。 微笑发自内心,无法伪装。保持“微笑”的心态,人生会更加美好。人生中有挫折有失败,有误解,那是很正常的,要想生活中一片坦途,那么首先就应清除心中的障碍。微笑的实质便是爱,懂得爱的人,一定不会是平庸的。 微笑是人生最好的名片,谁不希望跟一个乐观向上的人交朋友呢?微笑能给自己一种信心,也能给别人一种信心,从而更好地激发潜能。 微笑是朋友间最好的语言,一个自然流露的微笑,胜过千言万语,无论是初次谋面也好,相识已久也好,微笑能拉近人与人之间的距离,另彼此之间倍感温暖。 微笑是一种修养,并且是一种很重要的修养,微笑的实质是亲切,是鼓励,是温馨。真正懂得微笑的人,总是容易获得比别人更多的机会,总是容易取得成功。 December 14 Saint Lucia DaySaint Lucy's Day (Sankta Lucia, Saint Lucia) is the Church feast day dedicated to St. Lucy and is observed on December 13. It retains traditional forms of celebration mainly in Scandinavia, parts of the United States and southern Europe. It is celebrated in Sweden, Denmark, Estonia, Norway, Finland, Malta, Italy, Bosnia, Iceland, and Croatia. In the United States, people in areas of Minnesota and other states with Scandinavian roots continue to celebrate the holiday, often centered around church events. Before the reform of the Gregorian calendar in the 16th century, St. Lucy's Day fell close to the winter solstice on the Northern Hemisphere. In traditional celebrations, Saint Lucy comes as a young woman with lights and sweets. It is one of the few saint days observed in Scandinavia. In Scandinavia In Sweden, Denmark, Estonia, Norway and Finland, Lucy (called Lucia) it is venerated on December 13 in a ceremony where a girl is elected to portray Lucia. Wearing a white gown with a red sash and a crown of candles on her head, she walks at the head of a procession of women, each holding a candle. The candles symbolize the fire that refused to take St. Lucia's life when she was sentenced to be burned. The women sing a Lucia song while entering the room, to the melody of the traditional Neapolitan song Santa Lucia; the Italian lyrics describe the view from Santa Lucia in Naples, the various Scandinavian lyrics are fashioned for the occasion, describing the light with which Lucia overcomes the darkness. Each Scandinavian country has lyrics in their native tongues. After finishing this song, the procession sings Christmas carols or more songs about Lucia. A similar version occurs in Scandinavian communities and churches in the United States.
When the Scandinavian countries were Catholic, the night of Lucia was celebrated just as many other saints' days were. The tradition continued after the Reformation in the 1520s and 1530s. According to the Julian calendar[citation needed], the night of Lucia was the longest night of the year. This is likely to be the reason why the tradition has lived on in the Nordic countries in particular, as the nights in November and December are very dark and long before the snow has fallen, and the idea of light overcoming darkness is thus appealing. Sweden
Lucia bun, made with saffron. A traditional kind of bun, Lussekatt ("St. Lucia Bun"), made with saffron, is normally eaten on this day. Some trace the “re-birth” of the Lucia celebrations in Sweden to the tradition in German Protestant families of having girls dressed as angelic Christ children, handing out Christmas presents. The Swedish variant of this white-dressed Kindchen Jesus, or Christkind, was called Kinken Jes, and started to appear in upper-class families in the 1700s on Christmas Eve with a candle-wreath in her hair, handing out candy and cakes to the children. Another theory claims that the Lucia celebration evolved from old Swedish traditions of “star boys” and white-dressed angels singing Christmas carols at different events during Advent and Christmas. In either case, the current tradition of having a white-dressed woman with candles in her hair appearing on the morning of the Lucia day started in the area around Lake Vänern in the late 1700s and spread slowly to other parts of the country during the 1800s. In the Lucia procession in the home depicted by Carl Larsson in 1908, the oldest daughter brings coffee and St. Lucia buns to her parents while wearing a candle-wreath and singing a Lucia song. Other daughters may help, dressed in the same kind of white robe and carrying a candle in one hand, but only the oldest daughter wears the candle-wreath. The modern tradition of having public processions in the Swedish cities started in 1927 when a newspaper in Stockholm elected an official Lucia for Stockholm that year. The initiative was then followed around the country through the local press. Today most cities in Sweden appoint a Lucia every year. Schools elect a Lucia and her maids among the students and a national Lucia is elected on national television from regional winners. The regional Lucias will visit shopping malls, old people's homes and churches, singing and handing out ginger snaps. There are now also boys in the procession, playing different roles associated with Christmas. Some may be dressed in the same kind of white robe, but with a coneshaped hat decorated with golden stars, called stjärngossar (star boys); some may be dressed up as "tomtenissar" (Santa's little helpers), carrying lanterns; and some may be dressed up as gingerbread men. They participate in the singing and also have a song or two of their own, usually Staffan Stalledräng, which tells the story about Saint Stephen, the first Christian martyr, caring for his five horses. A traditional kind of bun, Lussekatt ("St. Lucia Bun"), made with saffron, is normally eaten on this day. Although St. Lucia's Day is not an official holiday in Sweden, it is a popular occasion in Sweden. The Lucia evening and night is a notoriously noisy time. High school students often celebrate by partying all through the night. At many universities, students hold big formal dinner parties since this is the last chance to celebrate together before most students go home to their families for Christmas. The Swedish lyrics to the Neapolitan song Santa Lucia have traditionally been either Natten går tunga fjät (The Night walks with heavy steps) or Sankta Lucia, ljusklara hägring (Saint Lucy, Bright Illusion). There is also a modern version with easier text for children: Ute är mörkt och kallt (Outside it's dark and cold). ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ----------------------------------------------- Lyric of Sankta lucia ljusklara hägring Sprid i vår vinternatt glans av din fägring Drömmar med vinge sus under oss sia Tänd dina vita ljus sankta lucia ¯
Kom i din vita skrud, huld med din maning Skänk oss du julens brud, julfröjders aning Drömmar med vinge sus under oss sia Tänd dina vita ljus sankta lucia ¯
Stjärnor ska leda oss, vägen att finna Bli dina klara bloss fagra prästinna Drömmar med vinge sus under oss sia Tänd dina vita ljus sankta lucia ¯ _________________________________________________
Staffan var en stalledräng
Bästa fålen apelgrå,
Nu är eld uti var spis,
Nu är fröjd uti vart hus, vi tackom nu så gärna. |
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